Getting upset over small stuff

I may have just overreacted. When I thought he yelled at me annoyingly when I tried to ask him if he is ok. It always hurts me when he is under his temper. When I show concern, asking him some questions, and I get a nag.

Today, I got a disppointingly rejecting remark from him, over questions like, "Are you ok?" I showed him that it upsets me by not talking at all. I was silent until it bothers me already.

I thought, he may have a lot things going on and asking him if he is ok, is not a good idea. Sometimes, I get that feeling and I guess I should just let this pass and learn to adjust. Me getting upset every now and then is not helping neither one of us. So now, I guess what I need to do is learn how to be more patient so to skip nonsense, cold war, and being adult on more things.