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Why do I love Brazil?

Gay life, like all life in Rio, is integrally connected to the beach, and there are two gay beach areas here. The Ipanema gay beach, at the foot of Rua (Rua = street) Farme de Amoedo, gets a more upscale crowd. The after-beach haunt here is Bofetada (Farme de Amoedo Street, between Visconde de Piraja Ave. and Barao da Torre Street), where people go immediately after the beach, in their swimming wear.

The Copacabana gay beach is found at the foot of Rua Fernandes Mendes in front of the Copacabana Palace Hotel. The gay crowd here is earthy and lively, with a sprinkling of transvestites.

article taken from Gay.com

I just found out that a dotcom manager called my sleeping supervisor, woke her up just to tell her that I was surfing last night.

Who isn't? I'm sure you surfed last night too. I saw your monitor. You have a lot going on wrong with your lares and penates.

Peace!

FYI. You still owe me a hundred bucks.

Hay naku.... nakakapagod nang mag-adik. Pero gow pa rin ako ng gow! Kanina lang, nag in-house kame... umuwe akong may amats at pumasok sa trabahong umaamats pa. Nakakaloka. Kung ibebenta ako, ang mura mura ko nalang.

Nalaman ko ngayon sa opisina na marame pa lang nagtatanong kung sino si parteeboi. I'm sure iba sa inyo may idea na, pero believe it or not, I intentionally made this blog as an outlet of expressing my sadness when I crash. And, I want to tell it to strangers, to people who don't know me. Alam mo naman ako pag nagkwento mej graphic and brutally honest. Hindi ako creative writer, gusto ko lang talagang magblog about my addiction on ecstacy. I find it very interesting e. Me myself, I didn't see myself before as a potential drug addict. May isang friend nga ako dati, narinig kong nag-jutes super pangungutya ang inabot niya saken.

Alam niyo, for some reasons... When I took ecstacy, I felt previledged to have the wisdom of how it is like and what life can be if you are using it. I feel a little knowledgeable about life. Hay... mga TH (tamang hinala) ng isang adik.

Just in case, sa mga iba diyan who needs some little advise... I'd be happy to share mine. But of course, there are people out there who are more experienced than me.

Girl, hinay hinay lang...

People are indeed imperfect. Despite how much they try to be pleasant, patient and honest on most things, there are other people who'll still see them bad.

People indeed make mistakes. People are only human, very vulnerable to feel anger, hate, indifference and have the tendency to express exasperation in one way or another.

"Friendship is one mind in two bodies." Mencius is lucky to have pondered on this thought, and to have found a friend as he define it, or burdened to have found a friend whose interests and point of views differ from yours and judges you almost everytime.

Correct me if I'm wrong, sometimes you need a person who'll only listen because time will come that you are going to seek for their advise. But there are people who, could be just overconcerned, who will generalize you as a person, tag you, and you respect it, and you think of giving some time for yourself to think about its legitimacy, but they unstopably resort to moralize you and in turn demoralize you. And you found yourself sunken, and with your thin threshold, you can't help it but hate the person for sucking all the patience in you.

I guess, the other party can't relate to your state of being. You humble yourself, and think that you might be a little immature and incapable for his way of thinking and wisdom. So, you refrain from confiding to that person, think of things your way, find another person's thought, who could instead inspire you to correct your mistakes and tell you his objections not in a harsh way.

Filling a bottle is different from filling a glass. We have to be sensitive enough to see the difference between the two. But people are different from each other, and so you keep your cool, as much as you can. Specially if you cannot handle confrontations well. Just do what you think is right, and observe what the other person is saying to be the right thing to do and both learn from each other by your examples.

"I learn most things from my friends. I thank them for keeping their cool, accepting me as what I am, and pep me when I'm ready and I ask for it. I've seen a lot of positive things in them so I apply it to myself"

"I guess, I have become almost like them, non-confrontational, no whims, no drama, just being oneself and keeping not to offend anyone. But I'm not saying that I don't and didn't offend anyone anymore at all. I know I have a lot of rooms for improvement, and sometimes offend a person without me knowing it. Johari still speaks true to me and I guess to everyone else."

Of course, you appreciate all his concern and value all the things that you shared. But sometimes, you get tired but it doesn't mean to say that you are leaving. Personal differences has been at the same time a blessing and a challenge. A blessing to be able to enjoy what you desire without conflict and a challenge to understand the unacceptable and the unbecoming. Despite your differences, you know there is still a thing called compromising. You may not be the same exact person, and has contradicting points but you don't have to end and forget what you've already built. Friendship is a thing shared by at least two individuals, so you don't lose your individuality. On the other hand, in one way or another, similarity in interests and closeness in beliefs indeed bond two people, but, uniformity in all things and aspects loses the color and dimishes the meaning.